Too many people experience it. Its horrible. Never should anybody have too. They are completely beautiful no matter what anyone says. People who cause insecurity make me so freaking mad its not even funny. People are so rude. Girls DO NOT need to feel insecure. there are insecurities for weight, hair, eyes, face, makeup, body in a bathing suit, even if a girl makes a simple comment, people have to be rude and say something, which gives insecurities. All girls think about is “do they like me” “do they think im annoying” “does he actually like me, or did his buddies dare him”. Its horrible! Stop being so mean. I remember feeling like that. Not that i dont anymore, because i do, and it sucks. im always worried about if people like me, or if people are being honest when they say :I Love You. or if people truthfully care about me, because i feel like they dont, when i know for an honest freaking fact they do. You know what, no one should feel insecure. because everyone is perfect, because god doesnt make mistakes.
Differences.
Okay. So this one is obviously ^^^ about differences. alright, so everyone likes different types of music. Personally, i like country, metal, and hiphop and classical. but everone’s opinions are different. I’ve noticed alot that tons of people get made fun of for the types of music they listen to. It’s really annoying, because i definately know from experience that its easy to make fun of people that are different, or like different things, because I AM different. Just like music, some people may talk differently, or have an accent, or have a different viewpoints on alot of things. But still, people make fun of them. People need to learn to be a little bit more accepting. Not everyone is the same. YOU are different just like everyone else. How would you like it if someone made fun of you because you did something a little differently. If it makes you happy, my opinion, is that you should do it, not matter what because its what you enjoy. you shouldnt have to please anyone with what you do. i used to think that i ALWAYS needed to please people. A couple of Facebook wall posts later, i realized that ALOT of people actually thought i was really cool the way i was. and now, i think its AWESOME that i can be myself without having insecurities or feeling left out of the crowd. I have my own friends who love me for who i am, and i love them back. Just remember, You are beautiful, just the way you are, because GOD doesn’t make any mistakes.
My stand on religion
Okay, religion is definitely a big subject. It is widely thought and talked about. Unfortunately, we fight over it as well. So, i am a roman catholic. 14 years old. i have been going to the exact same church all of my life. its what i believe and its what i love. although, to be honest, i didn’t exactly have a say in picking a religion. you see, as a catholic, i am supposed to believe that the roman catholic church is the ONLY church. the only one, built on the rock of JESUS himself. to be honest, JESUS himself was Jewish. How is the catholic church built off of JESUS is he himself was Jewish. I believe the core of the catholic beliefs and the church, don’t get me wrong, but there are certain things i have a different stand on. I have a lot of friends who go to different churches. many many many of them have invited me to youth group with them. I have gone, and i still go to one of my really good friends youth groups. Now here’s my issue. We all believe in JESUS. Every religion. All people who believe, worship and pray to the same GOD. We read basically the same scripture. We sing basically the same gospel/hymn tunes, yet, all of our religions are just so different. And almost no religion is allowed to accept other religions in their hearts other than their own. Its ridiculous. We all are the same. If we all are beautiful and equal on the inside, that should mean religion as well. No offense, but get over yourself, and be nicer to other religions. They believe in the same GOD you do. They pray to the same GOD. They have faith and hope and love in the same GOD. Chill out.
How media affects image.
Hey alright so this is a very big topic, but its not widely talked about. I think its a big issue though. Okay, so, media can be a good, or a bad thing. It could be good publicity for celebrities, but bad for teenagers. For example, media, can sometimes do a lot of photoshopping. Which can make girls like say, me or my friends feel less confidence in ourselves because we dont look at slender as the celebrities do. Or maybe, we go out and buy more makeup because we think we arent as pretty as the girl on the cover of our seventeen magazine. It can really hurt the girls reading the publicity. Not only does it hurt us, it hurts the celebrities sometimes as well. They may feel pressure to be a certain person, or role model or live up to someone. For example, Demi Lovato. She seemed like she was so happy and cheerful and on the inside, she had an eating disorder, cut and had depression. Because she felt pressure to be a certain character. I would be depressed as well if i was in her place! She was once a disney teen queen, a rolemodel, and a HUGELY famous actress and singer. Now, she is an even bigger role model because she doesnt pay attention to the media at all. The media can be heard through youtube, news, paper, magazines, facebook, blogs, myspace, twitter and so many other websites. Sure, it can get people noticed, but that doesnt mean what the media says is true.
Abortion.
Me and Hannah always have continuous things to talk about at our sleepovers. To see Hannah’s Point of view on this topic go to her blog www.hannahsantics.wordpress.com! Thanks for reading. P.s. we do not look at each others blogs before hand. So its not byist, we write our standpoint, then read eachothers blogs. Thanks again(;
Topic today is Abortion
I personally think abortion is really dumb. Being a “Believer” in the words and eyes of Jesus Christ, it’s not only “criminally” wrong, but its a sin. Like, what if GOD created you’re child to, I dunno, be the creator of the cure for all types of cancer. God created your child for that specific purpose. Then, you killed your child. Abortion is killing. Its basically murder that you don’t get in trouble for. ITS LIKE THE FRIGGEN CASEY ANTHONY CASE! She according to the jury did not kill her own child. But many people say she did. So lets say she did kill Caylee, it would be the same as having an abortion. Its just like killing your own child. ITS SO DUMB! So what if you were raped. I think the lord put that child in you for a reason. Rape or not. Its still a miracle. GOD put that child inside of you. HE picked you. Not someone else. You were chosen to have this child. WHAT IF THE BABY THAT RAPIST CREATED WAS THE NEXT JESUS, AND YOU GOT A FRIGGEN ABORTION. You just killed jesus. Stupid. Bye.
Stupid Boys
Alright everyone. I’m baaaaaaack. And my topic?? Why boys and men are so stupid. Alright. So being 14, guys are being so dumb. and so blind. All they want is cleavage and slutty girls with makeup two inches thick. Well, in my school to be honest, there are TONS of really pretty girls in our school. But with my school, its one thing called “popularity”. Guys arent willing to look past whats in front of them to look for truly amazing and wonderful girls. My group of friends, they are the best thing that has happened to me since I moved. I have 5-10 amazing friends that i know i can always and contantly count on to be there for me, and stupid guys dont even care. Anyways, not only are boys emotionally stupid, they are mentally stupid. Physically, not so much(; but mentally and emotionally, you better bet on it. Half the guys in my grade, have been held back at least once. and the rest of them may be mentally intelligent, but hteyre not emotionally intelligent enough to look for a nice girl thats going to earn them a long term REAL relationship. i mean, sure, i have alot of guy friends who are sweet and kind and special to me, but even they dont look past looks for a girl. Looks may be a big part of having a relationship, but emotionally attaching yourself may be hard to that person when you’re not compatible with them. this topic just really gets me going because of the stupidity of all the guys in this world. They only look for looks. Sure, you and I will both find our “prince charming” one day, but right now, many girls are wondering “whats wrong with me” and “am i ugly”, “am i not good enough” and you know what they do, they go out and change themselves to get attention from at least one guy. first, girls, let me tell you you under no circumstances need to change yourself for a friggen guy. If you have to change for them, they arent worth your time. And you know what else, guys think they have it so hard! they say, oh we have to propose, we have to make the first move, we have to say i love you first, we have to deal with girls being bitches towards us. well, you know what, women, not men, women have to deal with, finding the perfect dress, eyelash curlers, hair frizz, looking perfect, thongs, waxing, PMS, having our period, getting good grades, behaving ourselves, resisting temptations, weight issues, diseases like breast cancer, shaving, tweezing, plucking, surgery, child birth, getting pregnant, being called names for having sex, STDs with no symtoms, domestic violence, drama from other girls, high heels, tears in our clothes, finding a boyfriend, burns from straighteners or curlers, wasting money on makeup kits and new nail polish, and so much more. guys, you dont know how good you have it. So you know what boys, next time you are gonna be a dickweed to a girl, remember what they have to go through. And try looking past a girls looks and look at their personality for a friggen change. Geez.
CyberBullying Issue.
Hey everyone. So obviously, right now, cyberbullying is a HUGE issue. I think, its…masked so people don’t get in trouble. There is this thing on Facebook thats called. Venice _________. You can fill in the blank. your choices are…
Venice Vs, Venice Finest, Venice Best, Venice Cutest, Venice Real, and so many more….
These pages really bother me. I’m not trying to be mean or rude or whatever, but this has gotten way out of hand. All of these pages may make some girls or guys feel good about themselves, or special, or unique. But there are other girls on the end of all of the ones that feel good. I would only know because one of my really great friends came to me and said, “have you seen the Venice Vs page? I was put up against one of the “populars” and i lost. Way to give someone good self-esteem.” Like i said, out of control. Its crazy. i honestly think that the creator of the page is putting certain girls up against other certain girls to make the first group of certain girls feel bad about themselves. Now, that may not be their true intention, but anyhow, it still hurts people. I’ve been on the end of the hurt before. I’ve looked on all of these pages to be honest, and they made me feel unimportant, unwanted, esteemless and certainly not happy. I looked at the pages and thought to myself, wow, why can’t i be pretty enough to be on these pages. Or why cant i be popular enough, or known enough to be on the pages. Now, i want absolutely no part in any of the pages whatsoever. I started thinking that if it hurt me, it definately hurt other girls. Especially when some of the other girls have their brother, or best friend, or cousin or whatever being a winner of one of those pages. AWKWARD. not only that, but no one knows who the creator of these or any of the pages are. AWFUL. So i mean what can i do about it? Someone needs to seriously consider taking up legal matters. Detectives can easily figure out who the creator(s) of the pages are. This has just gotten completely out of hand. Who ever is doing this needs to quit, cold turkey on these stupid pages. This message will be heard. For a long time, everyone was trying to stop cyberbullying, and trust me, i applaud them for that, but they just quit. They didnt continue trying to fix the problem, they just ignored it. well, ignoring the issue may work for a little bit, but its not going to work all the time. You need to work harder to solve a problem, especially as big as this. Check out seventeen magazine or seventeen.com as well as abc family on television or abcfamily.com to check out the deletedigitaldrama pages. Delete it all before you claim someones life.
